This letter
initially baffled me because it is signed off with a nickname “Aunt Sylvia” but
it only makes sense as a letter from Martha Wilmot / Bradford because the
children named and described in it as “my progeny” are hers. Emma Rothwell at
the Royal Irish Academy in Dublin provided the necessary scan to confirm the handwriting by a
comparison with Martha’s notebooks held in Dublin along with letters
which provided the material for two volumes published in 1934 and 1935: The
Russian Journals of Martha and Catherine Wilmot: Being an Account by two Irish
Ladies of their Adventures in Russia as Guests of the celebrated Princess
Daschkaw, containing vivid Descriptions of contemporary Court Life and Society,
and lively Anecdotes of many interesting historical Characters followed by More
letters from Martha Wilmot: impressions of Vienna 1819 – 1829.
Martha
Wilmot will figure prominently in two books to be published in autumn 2024: Angela
Byrne, Anarchy and Authority: Irish Encounters with Romanov Russia and
Alexis Wolf, Transnational Women Writers in the Wilmot Coterie 1798 – 1840.
The letter
begins with a beautifully crafted opening paragraph in which Martha
congratulates her nephew Edward Wilmot on the birth of a first child and
continues with family news and reflections on contemporary politics and mores.
It has not been previously published and is now in my possession from the
purchase of a local history collection belonging to the late Graham Booth. At
the time of its writing, Martha was 55 or 56.
Storrington
13th June 1831
I wish this
paper was couleur de rose dearest Edward that it might at once shew you the
pleasure which your letter announcing dear Janet’s safety & the birth of my
tiny great grand nephew has given me, as well as William [husband of Martha],
Alice [sister of Martha], Catharine [daughter of Martha] &
Blanche [younger daughter of Martha], all & each of whom desire me
to express their pleasure, according to their different characters. I will name
the last first by telling you that Blanchy your graceless god daughter burst
out laughing at the notion of her Vienna playfellow being not only an old
married man which was bad enough, but a real Papa which was ten times
worse. If so catching a thing is folly, that although the older & wiser
individuals of the party assembled at breakfast begun by joyful exclamations of
a more quiet nature - & I am not
sure whether a sentimental sympathy for the dear Mamma was not excited on my
part, - yet one by one we dropped off till broad mirth hailed the arrival of
the little stranger & will I hope prove a happy omen of a laughter loving
baby, the greatest of blessings for a young mother!
Well do I remember being the first to run and announce your
birth to your dear, dear father [Robert Wilmot] & well do I remember his receiving the news just like Blanche. His
first explosion was gratitude to the Almighty for Eliza’s safety, his second, a
droll, half incredulous laugh & intense curiosity to see the child.
Wednesday 15th
I was interrupted dearest Edward & could not resume my letter till
now & perhaps it is well for you, as I suspect I was just getting into a
morality strain, which you have escaped, & Sylvia comes to
tell you the present situation of your monstrous portfolio together with all
the extra baggage belonging to ourselves. They are all lying at Hamburg
waiting, like ourselves to know our fate – for at this moment we know no
more than you do whether we shall return to Vienna or not, & it is a
consideration to make said baggage march back, or remain stationary being so
far on that way. In short I fairly wish the whole concern was under the hammer,
for I think it all round but a bad chance of being anything but a dead expense
to us, & so much do I differ from you that far from wishing for more Vienna
treasures, I wish we had never brought anything that did not move on 4 wheels
along with ourselves. It is all a matter of luck your bringing things safely
thro the Custom House, & if you have that luck it is a thousand to one
whether the things are worth bringing; in these enlightened and luxurious days
we have found that almost everything which we imagined rich & rare is
become poor & common & it is all naturally accounted for by the
constant intercourse between nation & nation. The comical thing is that dress
& manners are literally just changing places between Vienna and
London to a great degree. I don’t say universally as yet. Our English children
set, I believe, the first fashion in Vienna of little white frocks and trousers,
short hair, & great simplicity & that is now almost universal there but
on coming to England I thought it was Vienna 10 years before, when I saw long
hair & silk frocks on urchins of 3 & 4 years of age, & when Mrs
this that & tother chose to force a bedroom most unnaturally &
ungracefully into their would be suite of rooms making an awkward clumsy
elegance of what is an easy & elegant disguise where its adopted; but the custom is losing
ground even there & it is mauvais ton to introduce the bedroom into society
at present, & is only adopted where the Apartment (not house) is on a small scale – have we improved our
tastes? I say no, nor our morals, nor
our manners, nor our mirth, nor our safety as a nation, no nor our
respectability! As for Ireland what has yours and Mr Bradford’s [support for Catholic] emancipation done? “All the rest of it” en
attendant I do not fret myself about things, I only sit & wonder what is to
happen next for the bare list of revolutions happening before our
eyes might furnish forth a quarto volume, with a few observations to illustrate
each.
Alicia [ Martha’s sister] quitted
us this morning to our great regret, she is going to visit Anna Maria [
Chetwode 1774- 1870, a writer - see Cambridge Dictionary of Irish
Biography]: & go with her & the family of Stretton to Malvern for a
short time, she charged me to say everything kind and affect. to Janett &
you
A propos, you modestly accuse me of being your debtor on the score of
letters, you sinner, when the truth is that a threefold epistle of Catherine,
Blanche & myself was never acknowledged by you. What have you to say to
that! As for me I do honestly confess myself the worst correspondent that ever
took pen in hand. But when you feel certain symptoms of pain in the eyeballs
every time you write a letter, you will then, and not till then know that one
letter from me deserves, but does not claim or honor, 2 or three from
young and strong sighted beings. I say no more.
Wilmot [Martha’s son, later General Wilmot
Henry Bradford] is learning to laugh and enjoy at the last bon
mot of all. He is so fond of Eton now he is in the 5th form,
that I suspect his Latin & Greek makes but a small part of his employment –
he wrote us a very amusing acct. of the 4th of June [traditional Eton celebrations since 1811]. He is
one of the boats & rows very well I hear. Of course you know Miss Wellesley
is now Mrs Robert Grenville – a very good match they say. I met old Salisbury
at H. House [ Hatfield House] when
Cath [ Martha’s daughter] made her débût &
ending for the season. Cath looked very well indeed at the drawing room,
but her simplicity was the droll part of it & so entirely did it take off
from shyness & vanity that she went thro the ceremony without the slightest
embarrassment & of course very gracefully. It is a positive fact that she
never once looked at herself in the looking glass before the event. She is the
same admirable true boots she always was but much improved in manners I
believe since you saw her, her singing is really noble. I am true boots
myself for I do not coquet the matter but speak the plain truth as it strikes
me & you know at …….[place name unreadable] I could
not endure her singing; so I may be believed.
Blanche grows prodigiously. She is a less decided character at
present than Cath but a very conquest making hussy I am told. My admirable Cath
is doing her best to keep up Blanche’s German, French & Italian music but
it is not as easy work at Storrington as it was at Vienna.
So my dear Ed I treat you as a Papa and speak of my progeny as
you desire – but I must take compassion on both our eyes & stop after
adding renewed congratulations & kind love to Janett – a kiss if you please
to that lump of flannel (dear child how I should like to see him) &
affectionate love to Em[ily?] if she is at Woodbrook. You may likewise present
comp’ts or what you will to Mr Chetwood [ Edward’s uncle] &
believe me your ever affect Aunt Sylvia
